What should I do if my 3-year-old child has an increasingly violent temper? The method is very simple, parents only need to do these things

Three unaccustomed and three no matter whether your children have this situation? That is, when a child reaches the age of 3, his temper will become more irritable and his behavior will become more rebellious. So do you know why a 3-year-old child has such a bad temper? 1. Children in the rebellious period are more sensitive to order. If we as parents behave slightly inappropriately. It may cause the child to lose control of his emotions and become very irritable. For example: after the child has arranged the toys, the child\’s toys are disrupted without the child\’s consent. For example: some children have placed their shoes at the door, and when we take them out to wear, they cry. 2. Insufficient emotional management ability. Children at this stage do not have a deep enough understanding of emotions. At the same time, the ability to manage self-emotions is poor. As a result, temper tantrums often occur. 3. Other external factors are affected by the above conditions. There may also be parents who over-indulge their children, causing their children to become angry and unstable; parents who often scold their children, causing their children to develop a rebellious mentality; and children who use \”losing their temper\” as a means of blackmailing their parents. So how should we parents deal with children who are throwing tantrums correctly? 1. Understand and accept children\’s emotions. If a child has an emotional reaction, that is, loses his temper, parents should first use empathy and listen to accept the child\’s emotions. When your child knows that you are willing to understand his feelings, he will slowly calm down. At the same time, we must know that a child\’s emotions do not mean agreement with the child\’s behavior. Let the child understand that all his feelings are acceptable to his parents. 2. Comfort the child. No matter what the reason, the moment the child loses his temper. Children need someone to comfort them, not to blame them. The emergency response to a child having a tantrum should be gentle. A hug, a sympathetic look, and a gentle look can calm the child. 3. Praise more and criticize less. Look for opportunities to praise the child more, do not try to use violence to control violence, and cultivate the child\’s ability to control himself. 4. After the child calms down, understand the reason for the child\’s tantrum and tell the child that this behavior is incorrect. Then tell the children how to express their needs next time they encounter the same thing, forming a virtuous circle. Finally, what I want to tell all parents is that yelling is always the last resort and should not be used indiscriminately on children, let alone abused.