What should make you more vigilant than Didi is the importance of irresponsible family education

Everyone must be aware of what happened recently. Some time ago, a female passenger in Leqing, Zhejiang, was brutally murdered by the driver while taking a ride on Didi. This is already the fourth homicide case on the Didi platform in the past two years. The indifference of the Didi platform and the procrastination of the customer service process are disappointing and chilling. In the end, what we got was just another procedural \”apology\” and \”rectification\” from the Didi platform. If everyone hadn\’t been really angry this time, Didi might not have been forced to finally announce the offline ride-hailing business (and it might be temporary), and even the founder wouldn\’t have come out to apologize. Now, there are many voices criticizing Didi in society. What I find strange is that there are far fewer comments blaming the murderer. There is no doubt that Didi is the \”accomplice\” in this case. I don’t have a good impression of the Didi platform, and I applaud the shutdown of the ride-hailing business. However, shouldn’t the murderer be the one who deserves to be condemned the most? After all, it was not Didi who committed the crime with his own hands, but the young man named Zhong! What is surprising is that there are very few critical articles about the direct murderer on the Internet, and we even see comments like this: There are many similar comments on the Internet that sympathize with the murderer and feel that the murderer’s mistake is excusable, and from the number of likes It can also be seen that there are many people who agree with such remarks. In fact, every time a vicious case occurs, there will always be some saints who come out and try to analyze the murderer\’s motive from a deep level, find the pity of the murderer, and then think that \”everything is society\’s fault\” and feel that the public treats them Too \”cold\”. I just want to say this: If this happened to you, and the victim was you, or someone close to you, would you still think so? At this time, the Holy Mothers often become silent again. Yes, people\’s feelings are always different. When things have nothing to do with their own interests, some people\’s morals become \”noble\”. This so-called nobility, in my opinion, is hypocrisy and cold-blooded. A basic fact is: if you do something wrong, you do something wrong, and you should accept the corresponding blame and punishment, without any reason! Maybe you are at the bottom of society, your family conditions are not good, you were bullied by others when you were a child, you have a tragic past… these are all your misfortunes. But they are absolutely no reason to pass your misfortune on to anyone. Being weak doesn\’t mean you are justified. Otherwise, what is the point of law? Therefore, I firmly agree to sentence the murderer to death. No matter how unfortunate his past is, it cannot cover up the crimes he committed. In addition, if you carefully study the family backgrounds of the murderers in recent vicious cases, you will find that there are huge problems in their family education. If the murderer is the first person responsible for these cases, then their parents are the second person responsible and should also be condemned. I don’t know how many people still remember the murder of the wife and the hidden body case that shocked the Internet? In October 2016, Zhu Xiaodong had a dispute with his wife Yang Liping at home. Afterwards, he brutally killed his wife and hid her body in a freezer, disguising his wife\’s identity for a long time. This case was recently retried. What shocked me were the remarks made by the mother of the murderer Zhu Xiaodong. ZhuXiaodong\’s mother believed that the court\’s sentence to Zhu Xiaodong\’s death penalty was \”too harsh\” and she wanted to appeal again. She said she could not accept the result. At the same time, she said: \”My son has always been well-behaved and timid. He did not murder his wife premeditatedly.\” Just from this short sentence and Zhu\’s mother\’s performance, we can see that her education of children is extremely failed: 1. Unwilling to take responsibility. A very important part of children\’s education is to let children understand, People should bear corresponding responsibility for what they do. It is an ironclad fact that Zhu Xiaodong committed murder. And countless evidences indicate that this was a premeditated murder. Even so, his mother said she \”cannot bear such a result\” and was looking for various excuses. The characteristic displayed in this way is to avoid responsibilities and find excuses for yourself. You dare to do it, but you don’t dare to do it? You cannot accept such a result. Can the family of the dead girl bear such a result? 2. Doting without boundaries means that a loving mother will often fail her children. This means doting without boundaries and restrictions, which is the fastest way to harm children. After Zhu Xiaodong killed his wife, he was still able to go to work and carry out activities normally as if nothing had happened, and even pretended to be his wife to communicate with relatives and friends. All these show that he is an extremely cold-blooded, cruel, and selfish person. But this kind of person is \”very good\” and \”timid\” in the eyes of his mother. It can only be said that Mother Zhu\’s doting on her children has reached the point where she cannot distinguish between right and wrong, which is unbelievable. What can be believed is that her education of Zhu Xiaodong from childhood to adulthood was full of such doting. And this kind of doting eventually allowed Zhu Xiaodong to grow into a murderer. The murderer of this Didi murder case, Zhong, is also the product of extremely failed family education. He is a left-behind child who was raised by his grandparents since he was a child. We all know that a common problem among old people and children is over-indulgence. This problem is even more serious for left-behind children. At this time, the correct solution should be for parents to communicate more with the elderly and correct some wrong education methods of the elderly. But unfortunately, perhaps because they felt guilty about their child (not being able to accompany them), instead of doing this, Zhong\’s parents went in an even wrong direction. This direction is unmeasured over-compensation. The specific manifestation is that regardless of right or wrong, Zhong\’s parents will always back up his behavior and be his safe haven. It doesn\’t matter if Zhong lost money when he opened a store, his parents will pay for it! Zhong owed money from gambling. It doesn\’t matter. His parents will pay back the money he owes! It doesn’t matter that Zhong has no income from work, no matter how old he is, his parents will take care of him! … Under this kind of education method, one can imagine what will happen to the children: for example, no matter what they do, the children will feel \”I am right\” or \”I am not afraid\”. Why? Because my parents protect me, they will help me solve problems if anything happens. Gradually, they become selfish, lazy, and indulge in bad habits. After falling into the abyss, it is not impossible to do the most evil deeds. Many details of this case can prove the above point of view. For example, before Zhong committed the murder, his financial situation was already on the brink of collapse. The reason is, on the one hand, laziness and unwillingness to work hard, and on the other hand, it is also because I like gambling and am heavily in debt. He borrowedMany online loan companies never thought of paying back the money from the beginning! After Zhong committed the murder, the first thing he thought of was to call his parents to cry! It also shows that the thinking pattern of \”finding parents when something goes wrong\” has been deeply ingrained since childhood, and his parents\’ education methods cannot escape the blame! The irresponsible Didi platform is an accomplice to many vicious incidents. So irresponsible family education is the incubator of these murderers, and it deserves our vigilance!