Have you ever thought about the possibility of a male doctor delivering your baby? Do you feel embarrassed? The editor tells you that with the development of the times, the era of midwives delivering babies no longer exists.
Two reasons to boycott male obstetricians
1. A place where only I can see my wife.
A possessive father may not mind seeing a male doctor delivering the baby. In their hearts, the place that only they can see is actually seen by other men. Of course they don\’t want it. At this time, they will doubt the doctor\’s professionalism and impure motives. Some fathers will strongly demand to change midwifery doctors at this time, and some even change hospitals without changing doctors.
Viewpoint: Dear fathers, you have to think that at this time, your dear wife is at a critical moment of life and death. Please don\’t do it for your own little bit of possessiveness and machismo. It was out of loyalty that I changed hospitals when I was about to give birth. Where can I find a hospital in such a hurry? In addition, other hospitals may not fully understand the physical condition of expectant mothers and usual prenatal check-ups. Therefore, for the health of mother and baby, please choose the profession that you trust male obstetricians and gynecologists.
2. Because I am a man and I don’t understand women’s labor pains.
Some mothers think that male doctors are just men and do not understand how painful childbirth is. So they may act very rude rather than gentle. It is even more difficult for male doctors to deliver babies. At the same time, male doctors may have a more arrogant attitude. Especially when labor is slow, some male doctors will be impatient. At this time, they will sneer and make rude remarks.
Opinion: Dear moms, maybe what you think is the situation is really unfortunate. But the chances of this happening are slim. Male doctors are doctors too, and they deliver more than just you. At the same time, they have all undergone systematic training and understand pain as well as you do. As for the cynicism and insults you mentioned, of course that rarely happens unless they want to quit.
Male gynecologist comes for revenge
1. Choosing obstetrics and gynecology is by no means purely motivated.
Many people think that boys who choose obstetrics and gynecology have impure motives and always feel that they are not shallow. In fact, this is not the case. It is not the doctor’s choice which department to choose. Many doctors are assigned to work as doctors in hospitals when they just graduate from medical universities. As for which department you are assigned to, that is arranged by the hospital. From a hospital\’s perspective, delivering a baby is a strenuous and physically demanding job, and men are indeed better suited to this role than women. At the same time, men handle special situations more calmly. Therefore, the hospital will selectively assign some boys to the obstetrics and gynecology department.
2. During the delivery process, the mother’s safety is the focus
The male obstetrician and gynecologist did not think much about other things when performing the operation. When giving birth, you have to be very careful and attentive. This happens to mothers all the time when they are giving birth. Where do they have extra heart?When I think about other things, my mind is filled with how to ensure the safety of mothers. Yes, they saw their mom\’s private parts, but since they became doctors, they see these organs so often that they see it more from a medical perspective. To use an inappropriate metaphor, it’s like when you see pork, do you feel it?
Let me tell you quietly, in fact, many male obstetricians and gynecologists will suffer from occupational diseases when they go home. So the male obstetrician was quite helpless. The bloody scenes during childbirth and the various complex smells made them less interested in that. Some fathers have various psychological disorders when they accompany a childbirth. What\’s more, what about male obstetricians and gynecologists who face such scenes every day?
Male obstetricians deliver babies more boldly and deftly
An expert in obstetrics and gynecology said that many male obstetricians and gynecologists are fast, bold and do things neatly. For caesarean section, the incision they make is smaller and more precise than that of female doctors. The smaller the incision for caesarean section, the more beautiful it will heal. However, because the incision of a laparotomy is smaller, it takes more effort for the doctor to dig out the fetus. Therefore, it tests both speed and strength. Therefore, male doctors are more competent when performing caesarean sections.
Voices from netizens:
reddayy: When I went for amniocentesis, I found that there was a long queue of female doctors, but the male doctors who performed the surgery on me paid little attention. But I found that the male doctor was very careful during the examination and had a good attitude. Maybe it’s because there’s a lot of pressure and few opportunities in the hospital, so it’s particularly serious. I was reluctant at first, but I tried my best to cooperate. Now it seems that men are more objective in gynecology.
wkkkss: When I was undergoing BC at 24 weeks, several expectant mothers at the front of the line withdrew and asked to change doctors. It turned out that a male doctor came. When it was my turn, I lay trembling on the hospital bed. He asked me to pull my clothes up, but I was afraid to change doctors. johana_chen: I also think that male doctors only need to have good medical skills. The last time I had a vaginal B-ultrasound, it was a male doctor. He has a great attitude and good technique. I think she is prettier than the previous female doctors!