What to do if a child threatens his parents by crying

Do you often encounter children who cry when they are not given toys, cry when they are not allowed to eat ice cream, cry when they are not allowed to look at their mobile phones, cry when they are not allowed to play with items that cannot be played with, or cry when they are not allowed to eat inappropriate food? In short, as long as they are not satisfied, they will roll on the floor and cry loudly. For this reason, many parents compromise in order to prevent their children from crying. In fact, I used to be like this, but recently I found that the phenomenon of children crying when they are not satisfied has become more and more serious. For this reason, I began to pay attention to it. No longer compromise when the child cries in order to make the child stop crying. Just like yesterday, my second child wanted to draw with my sister\’s pencil. If it were before, I would give it to him, but recently I have found that there are more and more pencil accidents. In addition, I was busy at that time and had no time to take care of him, so I rejected Erbao and told him that this was a bit dangerous and he couldn\’t play with it. After my second child was rejected, he kept crying. In the past, I would have been angry, but since reading the parenting book, I have begun to manage my emotions. Therefore, throughout the whole process, I was not angry, but paid attention to Erbao. When he cried, I cried with him and asked him gentle questions. You want it very much, don’t you? After hearing this, he immediately stopped crying and told me that he wanted to draw. I said, Mom, I know you want to draw, but it’s not about drawing. If you want to draw, mom will give you watercolor pens or crayons to draw with. He saw that I wouldn\’t give it to him and then said watercolor pens, so he continued to cry. After he cried, I continued to cry with him. When he cried very sadly, I hugged him and asked him if he still wanted to cry. If you want to, keep crying. If you don\’t, mom will get you something to eat. Methods and techniques for managing children\’s emotions Parenting books How to cultivate children with high emotional intelligence Ultra-clear PDF In this way, the child\’s emotions no longer continue to cry when I am gentle and accompany him, but he understands that the pencil cannot be used now. If you want to draw now, you can use watercolor pens to draw. The whole process of crying when the second baby was not available, I did not ask the child not to cry, but let him vent his emotions through crying. Because crying is a kind of emotional relief and decompression for children, so when children are sad, they must be allowed to cry. Only by crying can the child feel comfortable and relieve stress. But many parents don\’t like their children to cry, and they find it annoying when they cry. In fact, I was like this before, but this time I changed because of reading. I didn’t get angry because my child was crying, or lock him in the room, or ignore him. Instead, I cried with him. During the process, I hugged him from time to time to give him a sense of security. He saw that I was always with him, but I had no intention of compromising and letting him take it. I stopped crying because crying all the time was actually quite tiring. After the child\’s mood stabilized, I gently but firmly told Erbao, \”Baby, mommy knows you want to play, but that is very dangerous.\” When a child keeps crying, don\’t talk to the child a lot of reasons. The child\’s mood is unstable and the parents won\’t listen to anything they say. So, even if you cry about this, mom can\’t give it to you, but I can give you one that you can play with. In this way, Erbao Ningbajin was solved and he was very happy. Professor Li Meijin once said: When a child rolls around and cries, the best way is to do these five things: don’t scold the child, don’t yell at the child, don’t hit the child, don’tStay away from your children and do not reason with crying children. It can be seen that the most effective way to raise children is not to yell and compromise, but to gently and firmly adhere to principles and boundaries. When a child fails to achieve the results he wants from crying, the child will experience the bottom line of his parents from this incident. At the same time, I also understood what boundaries are, and I also understood that crying and acting out can\’t solve and get things together. Here is a list of 5 things parents should do if their children are not satisfied and start crying. After three times, the children will understand their parents’ bottom line. 1. When a child is crying, never say, \”Stop crying.\” 2. Don’t yell at your child just because he or she is crying. 3. You cannot lock the child in the room or leave the child. 4. Don’t compromise with your child just because he or she cries. High-resolution PDF 5 of how to cultivate children’s abilities. When your child is crying, don’t talk to your child. Instead, wait until your child’s mood is stable before chatting with your child. If parents do the above five points, even if the parents do not agree to the child\’s request, the child will not be traumatized and shadowed because of the rejection. Written at the end: Raising children is a process of self-cultivation. It is the children who are raised, but the parents who are cultivating. Therefore, in order to raise an excellent child, we work together to walk on the path of spiritual practice. Strive to become a qualified parent so that your children can thrive.