What to do if your baby cries in kindergarten

I would like to ask everyone first: What kind of experience would it be like if a child enters kindergarten without crying or fussing, with stable emotions, strong concentration, and is loved by both teachers and children? Maybe many parents are envious of parents who can have such a \”magic baby\”. After all, they can have a lot less to worry about. My friend Xiaomi is such a \”lucky parent\”, but according to Xiaomi, on the first day when I sent my child to kindergarten, not only did I not feel lucky, but I felt a little bit disappointed, as if something was missing… Yes, every year when kindergarten starts, various large-scale parent-child separation dramas are bound to be staged at the school gate. Tears are shed at every turn, and the children and parents can’t help crying. Situations like Xiaomi’s daughter are somewhat rare, so Xiaomi Will express those emotions. But having said that, it must be every parent’s expectation that children can quickly integrate into kindergarten, grow and learn healthily like a fish in water, and be praised by teachers and loved by children. So, like what happened to Xiaomi’s daughter, is it a gift? Or is it formed by later education? 01. When my 3-year-old daughter entered the kindergarten, she neither cried nor fussed, and was extremely focused, just because her mother insisted on doing one thing before going to bed. Speaking of Xiaomi’s daughter Ke Ke, she is a very cute and smart girl with very good expressive skills and good self-care ability. He is strong, and since he was a child, he is not as prone to crying and fussing as other children, and his emotions are very stable. Since entering kindergarten, Coke has received a lot of praise. It is very popular among teachers and children. The reason why Coke can perform so well in kindergarten is actually due to the fact that Xiaomi, the mother, insists on telling her children stories before they go to bed every day. Xiaomi said that since Coke was five months old, she has insisted on telling bedtime stories to her baby every day, and has told many stories no less than 20 times. The baby still loves to listen, and the final result of this persistence is: When Keke was more than 7 months old, he could call mom and dad clearly, and his language skills were much better than other children. In addition, he was very well-behaved after entering the kindergarten, neither crying nor making trouble… In fact, many parents know that giving Telling stories to children is one of the best ways for children to learn language. Every time children listen to a story, they can acquire new knowledge and improve their abilities in all aspects. 02. What are the benefits of children often listening to stories? Children who have listened to stories since childhood usually perform very well in several aspects. ① Strong language ability. A previous survey in the United States showed that the development of a child\’s reading, writing, and speaking abilities all stems from the child\’s listening in infancy. This is why some parents complain: My child is almost 2 years old and still can’t speak clearly. How come other people’s children can speak so well? In the final analysis, the reason for this situation is that, to put it bluntly, the child \”listens\” too little and does not accumulate enough vocabulary in the brain, so he cannot use accurate language and vocabulary to express what he is thinking. Listening to stories is a very good input process. When children listen to each story, they will slowly imprint the protagonist’s language, emotions, and logic into their own brains.When the environment is right, it will naturally be expressed. ② It can effectively improve concentration, memory and imagination. Babies before the age of 4 are in the golden period of exploring and recognizing external things, so children at this stage often like to listen to interesting stories. In the process of listening to the story, they are easily attracted by the plot in the story, so as to maintain a high level of mental concentration, which can effectively cultivate children\’s concentration and memory. In addition, the small story has a touching plot, which will fully mobilize the child\’s imagination. Brain, enhance children\’s imagination. A study published in the journal \”Pediatrics\” pointed out that the more stories children hear at home, the higher their brain activity. ③ Cultivate children\’s good living habits. For young children, children cannot absorb the adult preaching of parents, but through short stories, they can better guide children\’s behavior.