What to give as a Teacher\’s Day gift? Don\’t worry, this is the truth from a teacher

It’s Teacher’s Day again. Some parents began to wonder whether to give gifts to teachers. There has been a workplace joke for a long time that the boss may not remember anyone who gave a gift to the boss during the New Year, but the boss will definitely remember anyone who did not give a gift during the New Year. Parents who are struggling in the workplace every day can easily think: If everyone else gives gifts to teachers on Teacher\’s Day, but I don\’t, will my children be targeted by teachers? If that happens, the child will be in trouble. You know, the new school year has just begun! As a teacher, I can definitely tell parents that such worries are unnecessary. Because education has its own particularities, we cannot make an analogy between educational and teaching activities and workplace competition. In the workplace, the leader holds the power to allocate resources in a unit. If he is dissatisfied, he can put you on the back foot, assign you a bad job, or not promote you. But in terms of learning, teachers have neither the power nor the ability to make which students perform better and which students perform worse. When a teacher lectures to dozens of students in the classroom, it is impossible to say more to the students who gave gifts and to deliberately say less to the students who did not give gifts. Teachers can only treat everyone equally when imparting knowledge. If giving gifts can help you learn well, wouldn\’t it mean that rich children who are not short of money will definitely be top academics? Needless to say, in reality, there must be teachers who are willing to accept gifts, and there are also teachers who will look at students who give gifts in a different light. However, there are basically no cases where students make rapid progress because of giving gifts. Those really good students don\’t need to give gifts, nor do they become top academics because of giving gifts. You know, many teachers are also worried about their children\’s grades! In the workplace, whether the leader promotes you may be just a matter of words, but in school, the teacher cannot control whether the student\’s performance is good or bad. Whether you can be the first in the exam, and which university you will be admitted to, the teacher\’s decision does not matter at all. . As long as you get the top score in the exam, Tsinghua University and Peking University will rush to get you, and the school and teachers have nothing to do with it. At that time, the teachers were eager to give you gifts! Not only will the teacher not look down upon you because you didn’t give a gift, but he will also feel proud of himself. To be honest, if there is a student whose parents gave me a shopping card worth several hundred yuan, but is naughty and gets into trouble every day, and another student who doesn’t even send a blessing on WeChat but has excellent grades and abides by discipline, I’m sure Would prefer the latter. Even if the teacher is \”biased\”, he will be more inclined to the student who saves him trouble and effort in management and gives him a sense of accomplishment in business. You cause trouble to the teacher every day, and make the teacher waste a lot of time and worry about you. Even if you give the teacher a gift, the teacher doesn\’t like it. Therefore, if you want to win the favor of the teacher, you should strive to do your duty as a student and strive to be excellent in both character and study, which is more effective than giving gifts to the teacher. We always say that campus is the last piece of pure land in the world. Parents, society, and teachers themselves all have the responsibility to protect this piece of pure land from being polluted by the unspoken rules of society. As a front-line teacher, I really want to tell those parents who hope that their children will succeed and their daughters will succeed: There is really no need to go out of their way to give gifts to teachers. In fact, the goals of teachers and parents are always the same, both for the benefit of the children. For parents, actively cooperate with teachers’ education and teaching work, andEducating children well and allowing them to become well-rounded students is the best gift to teachers.