What you call love is just empty, boring, lonely and cold

Any form of cheating within marriage cannot be called love, it can only be called an affair. And what is stolen does not belong to you after all. A woman under thirty years old has been married for seven years and has a pair of children. Her husband is a construction worker at a construction site, and she takes care of her two children at home. The woman is beautiful, has studied in a technical secondary school, has a good family background since she was a child, and has never experienced hardship. I worked before getting married. After getting married, I gave birth to two children one after another. My husband was out of town, so I could only take care of the children full time. My husband is very honest. Although his income is not much, he gives it to the woman. When she first got married, the woman lived with her husband at a construction site for a period of time. She couldn\’t stand the poor living conditions at the construction site, so she went home. After giving birth to a child, I became even more unaccustomed to life at the construction site, and of course, it was not convenient. After that, my husband came home twice a year. Women don’t want this kind of life, and they don’t have the determination to change it. After the son gave birth to a daughter when he was two years old, the couple began living separately in two places for six or seven years. In the fourth year of marriage, the woman met a man who owned a shop. At that time, she went to the store to buy something and added her as a friend on WeChat Pay. After that, the man often contacted her. She said she had given birth to two children and was still beautiful. She talked about how hard it was for her to raise two children by herself. She said how sorry she was that her husband only came back twice a year. She was moved to tears, and someone finally understood the suffering that life had inflicted on her. At that time, men also had families and children. He runs a shop and his wife takes care of the children. After so many years of loneliness, a woman finally found some comfort in a man who understood her. In addition to the small amount of money her husband earned, what else did her husband bring to her? However, besides leaving the country and working hard to make money, what else can my husband do? During the seven years of marriage, he lived and ate at the construction site, saving every penny to send to the three of them. Even though it was not much, he still lived well. The house is my own, my parents-in-law take care of my three meals a day, my mother-in-law helps take care of the children, and my natal family supports me from time to time. Apart from loneliness and lack of money, there are not many things to worry about. Many people around me are living like this. If I hadn\’t met a man, these days would have happened day after day, year after year. The man showed his kindness, and she was moved. A thirty-year-old lonely woman and a thirty-year-old boring man. They came together for \”love\”. The stolen feeling is always more exciting. They all feel that meeting each other is equivalent to meeting true love. After two years together, their passionate relationship did not cool down. Instead, the man\’s wife had a quarrel after knowing the truth, which prompted them to make a brave decision: divorce and then get married. A man asked his wife for a divorce and gave her one of the two houses in the town. The family\’s savings of 100,000 yuan was divided into 50,000 yuan and the two children belonged to the man. The wife agreed. A woman asks her husband for a divorce without taking the house and children with her and leaves the house, but the man disagrees. Men don’t understand. I work hard to make money outside, and I only earn money without spending it. You focus on raising your children at home, and you have lived peacefully for seven years. Why do you suddenly want a divorce? For some unknown reason, the woman did not say that she was in love with someone else. So, the man got divorced, but the woman didn\’t. They still spend a lot of time together. However, their relationship has changed, and he is no longer as good to her as he was before. wifeAfter my son left, many things happened at home out of thin air: there were activities in my son’s kindergarten, and he wanted to participate. There was a parent-teacher meeting at his daughter\’s school, and he wanted to attend. There was either a power outage or phone outage at home, and they said they were in arrears. The washing machine is broken and needs to be repaired. Children came to him from time to time asking for their mother. When his mother saw him, she called him a prodigal. Why would such a good daughter-in-law want a divorce? Yes, why? Apart from being more beautiful, what else is there about a woman that can compare to her own wife? The wife takes care of the children, does housework, and honors her parents. Her children are in school, and she does odd jobs from time to time to support the family. Who in the neighborhood would not praise her as a good wife? Apart from dressing up, playing with mobile phones, and falling in love with him, women seem to have nothing to do every day. She hardly needs to interfere with her children when they go to school during the day and eat at their grandparents\’ house in the evening. The key is that it was she who proposed that the two get married after their respective divorces. Now, he has left, but she has not. The man felt he had been cheated. When he was with her again, he put away his gentle and affectionate side and became violent and irritable. A quarrel broke out between them. He said she was a liar and she said he was no longer as gentle as before. When the argument got heated, he beat her. Stolen things never belong to you. Their \”love\” gradually turned into ashes after burning for two years. His wife is gone, never to come back. Her mother-in-law knew about her affairs, and so did her husband. Her husband did not file for divorce, but her mother-in-law defended her son and called her a lazy vixen who seduced wild men every day. Life goes on, but their \”love\” seems to be over, but the lives of four adults (including the elderly) and four children in two families may change because of this. The story is over. The storyteller said that no matter how good the love is, it cannot overcome the dullness of life. I couldn\’t help but roll my eyes at her. Have you watched too many romantic dramas? Is this called \”love\”? Don\’t misinterpret the word \”love\”. For men, this is called desire, possession, and greed. For women, this is called emptiness, boredom and loneliness. It doesn’t mean that men can’t have desires, it doesn’t mean that women should endure loneliness, and it doesn’t mean that once you have a family, you can’t fall in love with someone else. That is to say, when you are dissatisfied with your current marital status and are unwilling to maintain it, you can dissolve the marriage through normal channels before starting another relationship. Any form of cheating within marriage cannot be called love, it can only be called an affair. And what is stolen does not belong to you after all, and you will have to pay it back sooner or later.