When their children enter junior high school, many parents are afraid that their children will be assigned to these two classes. The actual solution is very simple.

Before entering junior high school, children will be divided into classes. Many parents are afraid that their children will be assigned to two types of classes, one is a poor class, and the other is a good class with many connections. Poor class: The bottom of the contempt chain! No one wants their child to go to a poor class. There are three things that make people feel bad about bad classes. First, the quality of students is poor. The scores of these children are basically ranked in the bottom third of the school. The students have poor learning foundation, poor classroom discipline, and teachers are often interrupted in class. Some students in poor classes are obsessed with comparison, eating, drinking, having fun, and falling in love, but are not interested in learning. If children want to study with peace of mind in such an environment, they need to have strong anti-interference ability. Second, the stability of teachers is relatively poor. Teachers in poor classes are highly mobile, which is a common phenomenon in some schools. Some poor classes change teachers once or twice a semester. When this happens, parents have nothing to do. Third, the teacher’s progress in class is slow. Because of the overall deviation in students\’ learning foundation, teachers will focus more on the basics during class and will not do too much expansion. Children who really want to learn will not be able to get enough in class alone and need to supplement a lot of knowledge outside class. What should parents do if their child is assigned to a poor class? Parents should not be discouraged if their children are assigned to poor classes. As long as the children do not live in school, the negative impact of the class is controllable. There are three points that parents must pay attention to. 1. Don’t complain to your children about school and class. Try to face it with a positive attitude, spend more time chatting with your children, and help them with their psychological development. 2. Guide children to optimize their circle of friends. No matter how bad the class is, there will always be a few classmates who are willing to study hard and have good grades. Let the children form teams with these classmates, learn from each other, and learn from each other\’s strengths, and the children will still learn well. 3. Don’t rely too much on school teachers. From the first day of junior high school, we must help children make study plans and not fight unprepared battles. You must use some teaching aids and online courses outside class to help your children develop. A good class where people with connections gather: It’s not easy to say that I love you! Parents all want their children to go to a key class, except for one type of key class. This type of key class is the so-called guanxi household class, and is also jokingly called the \”royal relative\” class by many people. Many students in this type of class come in through connections. The parents of the students are either rich or noble. They are either officials or have extremely rich families. Some of them are the children of teachers. To break down this relationship, there are three main disadvantages. First, teachers may be snobbish. It is basically not your child\’s turn to evaluate the top students or the three best students in the class, which will have a slight impact on the child\’s self-confidence and enthusiasm. Children may also be treated differently by teachers. There are a lot of people complaining about this class online. Netizen 1: \”The teacher arranges the seats based on the parent\’s position and the amount of gifts. The students who often get the first place in the exam are not tall and their parents are not leaders, so they are always placed in the last row by the teacher.\” Netizen 2: \”Good things don\’t happen to you. You have a child at home, and the thankless task is for your child. The teacher is too busy to offend others, and he can only vent his anger on your child. \”Secondly, it is more difficult for children to integrate into the class! If your child is the only one with no background, he may not be able to integrate into that group. If the child is sensitive, introverted and has low self-esteem, he may not be able to make friends and will be lonely.Learning will also have an impact. As one mother said: \”They have their own circle, and it is difficult for ordinary people to blend in. Whether they are children or parents, they are not in the same circle and can\’t talk to each other!\” Third, the involution may be severe. Parents in this type of class spend a lot of money to train their children and follow the elite route. Every aspect is very complicated, from food, clothing, housing and transportation, to various training courses, talent training, and vacation arrangements. Children may be crushed in all aspects and need strong ability to withstand pressure, otherwise they will feel depressed and have low self-esteem. Although guanxi household classes have many disadvantages, their advantages are also particularly obvious. For example, the teacher configuration is the best in the whole grade; the students are of high quality and the class style of study is good; the teacher team is stable and does not change frequently; parents are easy to communicate with and can discuss everything, and it is good to have a casual relationship. If your child is assigned to a related class, parents don’t need to be too anxious. You only need to do 4 things. 1. Guide children to calm down and judge the good in a negative way. We must let our children know that their main task in school is to study well. As long as the teacher\’s teaching quality is high and the class learning atmosphere is good, it is enough. These false reputations are of little value compared to actual academic performance. 2. Provide children with psychological development. It is very normal for key classes to have many related families, and the comprehensive strength of these related families is relatively outstanding. It is expected that children from ordinary families will be completely crushed after entering. It is important to vaccinate your children in advance. 3. Parents should not be glass-hearted. Parents, don’t overcomplicate the problem! For example, when it comes to dividing classes, children often think it\’s nothing and behave very calmly, but parents worry about gains and losses, worry about everything, and are extremely anxious. Parents might as well regard this class division as a rare opportunity for their children to gain experience in life, so as to train their children\’s cheekiness, ability to withstand stress, and the ability to deal with different classmates. 4. If the circles are different, there is no need to force integration. You must tell your children that in this kind of class, it is good to make one or two close friends, but there is no need to force them if they cannot.