When you can understand these two magical Chinese characters, your child, no matter how ordinary, can turn into a genius!

There is such a mother who has never taken any parenting courses and rarely reads parenting books by so-called masters, let alone any parenting tips. But she was able to make her 3-year-old son in kindergarten, who couldn\’t even sit still for three minutes on the bench and was recommended by the teacher to be taken to the hospital for examination, eat two bowls of rice by himself for the first time without letting her feed him, and he could still sit still by himself. I sat on my desk and chair and listened to children’s fables for 30 minutes. Neighbors who know her say she is a miracle mother, because they all know that when her son was in kindergarten, he was the worst behaved among the 30 children in the class. Later, her son went to elementary school and always ranked first among the 48 classmates in the class. However, the teacher said that her son might have an intellectual problem because her son always ranked last and first. The teacher also suggested that she take her son to the hospital for a checkup. After a conversation between her and her son, a miracle happened again. Her son won an unprecedented 20th place in a math test and ran to the front of his deskmate. From that time on, the changes in her son surprised the neighbors. His eyes, which had always been dim, were suddenly filled with light, and his face, which had always been depressed, became brighter. Neighbors even discovered that her son started school much earlier than before and seemed to have grown up a lot. A few years later, her son successfully entered junior high school, but she never heard his name again at every parent-teacher meeting. This left her at a loss because she always heard her son\’s name on the list of poor students during parent-teacher meetings, which made her at a loss. When she was leaving, she plucked up the courage to ask her teacher, who told her: \”Based on your son\’s current grades, it is very dangerous to be admitted to a key high school.\” But something strange happened again, and her son was admitted to a key high school unexpectedly. This made the neighbors even more confused. They were all thinking about what trick she was using. How can a child with such a big problem have so many miraculous transformations? It’s unbelievable… What surprised the neighbors the most was… the first batch of university admission notices were issued. When they witnessed her son handing an express mail stamped with the admissions office of Tsinghua University to her mother’s hand, the neighbors were shocked. I was dumbfounded and couldn\’t believe this was true. At this time, the neighbors could no longer restrain themselves and asked her the secret of her troubled son\’s success. She was filled with sorrow and joy, and could no longer hold back the tears that had accumulated in her heart for more than ten years. She said: When the kindergarten teacher tells you: \”Your son has ADHD and can\’t sit still for three minutes on the bench, you\’d better take him.\” Check it out at the hospital.\” What would you tell your child? When the primary school teacher tells you: \”Your son\’s math test, out of 48 classmates in the class, your son ranked 48th. We suspect that your son has some intellectual disabilities. You\’d better take him to the hospital for a check-up.\” .\” What would you tell your children? When the junior high school teacher tells you: \”Based on your son\’s current grades, it is very dangerous to enter a key high school.\” What would you tell your child? At this time, she wiped away the tears with her hands and stared at the eyes that looked at her hungrily. The scene was completely silent. Suddenly, her son walked out of his room with tears in his eyes.Jing hugged his mother into his arms. I burst into tears and said, when my mother found out about me in the kindergarten, my mother told me: \”The teacher praised you and said that the baby could not sit on the bench for one minute, but now he can sit for three minutes. Other mothers were very envious of my mother because all the children Only the baby has improved in class.\” Because of my mother\’s praise, I became better behaved than ever before. Thank you to my mother for choosing to appreciate me. When my mother found out about me in elementary school, she told me: \”The teacher has full confidence in you. He said that you are not a stupid child. As long as you are more careful, you will surpass your classmates. This time your classmates The table is ranked 22nd.\” Because of my mother\’s praise, I felt confident again and relaxed. Thank you to my mother for choosing to appreciate me. When my mother learned that I was in junior high school, my mother told me: \”The head teacher is very satisfied with you. He said that as long as you work hard, you have a good chance of being admitted to a key high school.\” It is precisely because I am lucky enough to have this kind of person who knows how to praise and appreciate. , the mother who knows how to deceive her own children has created a child who is admitted to Tsinghua University today and is not a smart child like me. But let me ask, how many parents in this world can praise their children with all their heart? Praise is two magical Chinese characters. When you can understand its essence, even an ordinary child can turn into a genius!