Time flies so fast. In the midst of the \”love and death\” with my baby, the summer vacation is coming to an end! As the start of school approaches, many parents must be worried. Because when children go to school, the most testing people are their parents. The first grade is a hurdle, the third grade is a slope, and the sixth grade is a peak! For some parents, homework tutoring is a big problem: how to stimulate students\’ interest and motivation in learning. After entering elementary school, with homework tutoring again and again, parents gradually wake up and give up their illusions. Think about it, is this the norm for your children? I can’t understand or remember in class, and I’m thinking about outer space; I’m struggling to do my homework because I’m either thirsty or have a stomachache; I can talk about all the knowledge points, but I can’t do anything right when I answer the questions; I can’t do anything, but I’m the first in playing with rubber. . …Parents\’ wrong tutoring methods \”ruin\” their children\’s ability to learn independently. In fact, the third grade phenomenon occurs because children have lost their motivation to learn. If your child does not have any of the above problems, what everyone is most concerned about is learning preparation. Parents are still a little unsure about what exactly they need to learn before entering school, especially to what extent. Before the age of 12, children have the most plasticity. If parents provide \”right\” guidance, their children will be more adaptable when they enter middle school, and they will be more likely to excel all the way to the end. Once you miss this period, even if you spend ten times your efforts, it will be difficult to achieve a 3-point effect. However, the beginning of school is more important than grades, cultivating good habits in children. If children have good habits, they don’t have to worry about grades. Of course, parents’ “help” is absolutely essential. Parents must pay attention to the following 4 points! 1. Reach an agreement and develop the habit of abiding by the rules. On the one hand, it takes time, and on the other hand, you need to \”obey the rules.\” When parents help their children establish good habits, they must reach an agreement with their children and abide by the \”rules\” for each other. 2. Lead by example and set an example. For children, the most intuitive way to develop habits is the parents’ “words and deeds.” It is key for parents to lead by example and set an example. 3. Focus on encouragement, with clear rewards and punishments. When parents reach an agreement with their children and set goals and habits, they should focus on encouragement and focus on stimulating the child\’s endogenous motivation. But to a certain extent, parents can also add a \”reward and punishment mechanism\”, make an agreement with their children, and guide their children to develop good habits. What is a good reward and punishment mechanism? Please read \”Mom, can I play for an extra hour after finishing my homework?\” Your answer may make the child more tired of studying. 4. Strengthen communication and understand that when children have bad habits, parents should not Instead of beating and scolding children across the board, you need to strengthen communication with and understand your children. Only when you know yourself, your enemy, and your children\’s thoughts can you teach them in accordance with their aptitude, find their \”root causes\”, and help them develop good habits. For children, the new semester is both an opportunity and a challenge. In the face of new curriculum content, only by developing good habits can children make great progress in their study and life.
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