Whether your child is good at reading or not, you will know by looking at these 4 points.

Preface I was chatting with my best friend a few days ago, and she sighed and said: \”Are you saying that my child is not born to study? He is usually very smart, but when he comes to study, he has all kinds of problems, and I am worried to death.\” My best friend\’s house My precious son Lele is in the fourth grade of elementary school this year, and his grades have always been below average. My best friend is really worried about her children\’s studies. She has taken turns running various cram schools and interest classes, but the effect is not obvious. In fact, every child has his own growth rhythm and talent. Some children are naturally fond of learning and have a strong thirst for knowledge; while some children may be better at other aspects, such as art, sports, etc. So, how to judge whether a child is good at reading? Based on my many years of experience and observations in the education industry, I have summarized the following four points, which are very close to ten. 011. Do you have strong curiosity and thirst for knowledge? I remember when my Dabao first entered kindergarten, he would hold my hand every day when he came home from school and chatter non-stop: \”Mom, I learned a new nursery rhyme today. I sing to you \”Mom, the teacher told us an interesting story today, I want to hear it again!\” At that time, the child\’s eyes were always shining with curiosity and curiosity, and he was full of exploration of everything around him. desire. Every time she takes her child to a bookstore or library, she will excitedly pick out her favorite books and then sit down and read them quietly. Such children often have a natural interest and enthusiasm for learning. They will actively seek knowledge and enjoy the learning process. Even if you encounter difficulties, you will actively overcome them instead of giving up easily. On the contrary, some children lack interest in learning and even develop resistance. They are always forced to study by their parents or teachers and regard studying as a burden. It is difficult for such children to achieve excellent results no matter how hard they work. 02 2. Whether you have good study habits. Study habits have a vital impact on children\’s academic performance. Good study habits include: completing homework on time, listening carefully, thinking positively, taking the initiative to review, etc. The mother of the top student in Dabao’s class shared that her child has known since he was a child that he must complete his homework before playing after school. Every time when doing homework, the children will read the questions carefully, think carefully, and take the initiative to ask her for advice when they encounter problems they don\’t know. Moreover, children will regularly review the knowledge points they have learned to ensure that they can firmly master them. Such study habits make children more comfortable in learning, and their grades will naturally improve. Some children lack good study habits. They always procrastinate and do things in a perfunctory manner. I was absent-minded during class and did not review and consolidate in time after class. Such children, no matter how smart they are, will find it difficult to achieve good results. 033. Do you have strong psychological endurance? The road to learning is never smooth, and children will always encounter various difficulties and setbacks. Strong psychological endurance is the key for children to overcome difficulties and achieve success. My nephew has also encountered many difficulties in his studies. My mother and grandmother often call me via video to communicate and find solutions. His math scores have always been unsatisfactory and his reading comprehension skills are poor. But every time I meetHe will face setbacks bravely and never give up easily. Once, he didn\’t do very well on a math test. When he came back, he hid in his room and cried. I comforted him on the phone and said, \”It doesn\’t matter. If you fail the test once, it doesn\’t mean anything. As long as you work hard, you will definitely do well next time.\” Sure enough, from then on, the child worked harder to study mathematics and his grades gradually improved. Some children lack psychological endurance and are prone to give up on themselves and become unable to recover once they encounter setbacks. Such children, no matter how hard they work, will find it difficult to make great progress in learning. 044. Do you have self-discipline? Children with strong self-discipline are often able to better plan their own time and study plans to ensure that they can complete learning tasks efficiently. My neighbor Xiao Ming has known since he was a child that time is precious and cannot be wasted on meaningless things. Therefore, he always arranges his time reasonably to ensure that he can complete the set learning tasks every day. Moreover, he will adjust his study plan and methods in time according to his own learning situation. For example, when he finds that he has shortcomings in reading comprehension, he will take the initiative to find some relevant books for reading practice; when he finds that he has made progress in mathematics, he will continue to maintain and strengthen his learning in this area. This kind of self-discipline makes him more comfortable and at ease in learning. Some children lack self-discipline and are always attracted by various temptations and cannot focus on learning. They may become addicted to games, television and other entertainment activities, causing their academic performance to plummet. Having said so much about Cheng’s mother’s sentiments, what I actually want to tell you is that whether a child is good at studying or not is not set in stone. Every child has his or her own strengths and weaknesses. The key lies in how we guide and cultivate them. Children who are self-disciplined, love to learn, do not give up when encountering difficulties, and have good study habits tend to be more successful in learning. But even if your child is lacking in these areas, don’t worry. Because, as long as we guide, accompany and encourage them with our heart, they will definitely find their own place in learning and achieve their own results. As Einstein said: \”Everyone is a genius, but if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life thinking that it is a fool.\” Every child has his or her own talents and potential, and we What we need to do is to discover and stimulate these potentials, so that they can shine with their own brilliance on the road of life. The above is what I am sharing today, I hope it can bring you some inspiration and warmth. On the road to parenting, we are all partners in continuous learning and growth. Wish you good health.