Who can give mom a holiday?

A few days ago, a father added me on WeChat and said that the child was just a few months old, but his wife had a very bad temper. Sometimes when the child cries, she cries too. When he accused her, she said, \”You don\’t have children and you don\’t understand.\” In fact, he is a relatively sensible father who often burps and changes diapers for his children. But he said he didn\’t want to quarrel, so he chose to avoid and have a cold war. I asked him if there were any elderly people to help him? \”No, my wife usually takes care of me alone. I also have to go to work.\” As soon as he said this answer, I seemed to see my situation back then. My son happened to be five or six months old at that time. We felt we were capable, so we started taking care of ourselves. My wife still takes care of the baby with a smile every day. Even though I am at work, I never imagined how difficult it would be for a mother to take care of her baby. But the real situation is that it is difficult and tiring. Under such circumstances, it is impossible for a woman to have a good temper and be as affectionate as when she is in love. I told him that if you choose to take care of yourself, you must understand your wife\’s difficulties. You have to bear with your anger. If her bad mood is not passed on to you, it will be passed on to the child. You cannot be silent and think that the cold war can bring peace, because this will make an anxious mother fall deeper into depression. You also can\’t hide and come home late, as that will only make the situation worse. Please try your best to accompany her through this most difficult time. How many mothers are still smiling strongly. I was having breakfast a few days ago. I usually get up late in the morning because I stay up late. So when I go there to eat noodles, there won’t be many people there. That day, a mother was carrying a vegetable basket in one hand and several bags of fruit hanging on it. A single waist stool is tied around the waist, and a baby is hugged in one hand. As soon as she sat down, she put her things away, hugged her child and went out again. While anxiously saying to the boss: \”I dropped my wallet, please help me look at my things.\” Then he walked away in a hurry. I remember when my wife told me about taking the kids out to buy groceries. At that time, we didn’t prepare a waist stool, so she had to hold it with her hands, so she couldn’t bend down to pick things up if she dropped them. Only by truly seeing the difficulties of these mothers can we understand the difficulty of raising children. If you don\’t take care of your children yourself, you will never feel this way. When she came back, the powder on the table was already slightly cold. The hour hand on the wall is already pointing to 11:00. The child in her arms is very well-behaved, and she can hear her mother eating breakfast quietly. She also happily said that the fruit today was fresh and she bought a little more, but she unexpectedly dropped her wallet. When she finished eating, she had to give the baby to the boss to hold for a while, because she had to strap her waist to the stool. Repeat this action every day. In the sultry June, she wore thick \”armor\”. Eat breakfast near noon, and eat lunch after noon. We see a quiet and adorable little baby. In the arms of a happy mother. We see so much happiness. And the hardship behind her, the tears secretly wiped away. Only she will always know. Who can give mom a holiday? I think mothers don’t get holidays, especially when their children are young. Open all year round, 24 hours a day. Even if you have to spend time with your children due to work or other reasonsrespectively. What I miss most is my children. I still remember that at that time, my son was at his grandma’s house in the countryside for a while. We can only go back to see him every weekend. Sometimes during a day off, my wife would rush home at night to spend the night with her son. The next day, I had to get up before dawn to catch the bus to go to work. I only have a few hours with my children, but more than ten hours on the road. On those winter mornings, with the cold wind howling outside the window, the mother kissed her child goodbye and left with full of care. When you become a mother, there is no time left! Now that it\’s the weekend, when my wife has a day off, her son clings to her. \”Mom, mom!\” When you have a child, you will feel that weekends are busier and busier than usual. When you become a mother, even if you are very old, it is not fake. My grandma is 77 years old this year, and her son, who is almost 60 years old, hasn’t called her for a while. She was so anxious that we should contact her. She must have trust. In my mother\’s heart, she always pretends to be a child. But children often forget to say hello to their mothers because they are too busy at work. These aging mothers seem to have had a lot of time off. But their hearts never stopped caring about their children. Every time I call. Always ask, how are you? Is the little guy obedient? I had a bad dream again, and I am really worried about you. Make a phone call often! I think every father should work hard and give mothers a \”vacation\” occasionally. This is not a national statutory holiday, but a holiday of love. When they are really tired. Coax the child over and tell him domineeringly, \”Let go of that woman and come to me.\” If you have something to transfer, the child will often come to your troubles. In our family, I often say this to my son who jumps on his mother when she lies down at night. Then we would go to another room and either read a few storybooks, have a \”fight,\” or watch an episode of a cartoon we both liked. When the children are about to enter school, it is time to enter the summer vacation. Take some time to prepare and make a plan. The mother of the child cannot be left to fight alone. Although women have the care and patience of women, their experience is accumulated through little efforts. You can\’t just say \”I don\’t understand, I don\’t care!\” and then go to your own world to play on your phone or have a party to hide. You know, having someone to advise and share the burden is always better than one person\’s hesitation and hardship. When they lose their temper with their children, please don\’t blame them. Please be on her side and understand how she feels. Remind me later if there is another way. Let your child see your support for her. Because the calmest, most controlled, and gentlest mother in the world also has a temper. We can\’t just see her temper, but think of how to help her. With my father’s support and understanding. I think there will definitely be fewer mothers with negative energy. If you love your child, love his mother first. If you love this family, you should be considerate of your wife. Only with father\’s dedication and hard work can mothers truly have a holiday.