Who has been killing children\’s filial piety? The truth shocked the Chinese people!

Because I have some free time during the holidays, there are quite a lot of friends in the group these days. Even those who usually dive show their faces. With more people, there are more topics. They exchanged stories about vacation trips, posted happy photos, talked about beautiful clothes and food, and discussed factual news, etc. Everyone enjoyed themselves. However, although there are many topics, the ones that resonate are really remarkable. The topic of filial piety is one of them. The cause of the great discussion on filial piety is several popular news items. One of the news items showed a young man following an old man with a wooden stick. When he got close to the old man, he suddenly raised the wooden stick and hit the old man on the head. When I saw this, my first reaction was that the old man was attacked by gangsters, but when I read on, I was dumbfounded. It turns out that the old man was not attacked by gangsters, but by his own son! The son didn\’t stop holding the stick until someone called the police. Afterwards, the police asked the old man why his son wanted to attack him, but the old man\’s reaction was very dull. It turned out that his son often treated him roughly like this because he was worried that if he found another wife, the old man\’s property would not be given to him! For the sake of property, he beat his old father with sticks and kicks, and he didn\’t know where to put the filial piety that a person should have? But the sad thing is that this kind of thing is really not an exception in our current society. Not to mention many, there are many reports in the media news from time to time. It is sad and heartbreaking to see it, and it not only makes people think deeply. . Should I blame this materialistic society or my own improper education? It is not difficult to find the main factors in the police\’s subsequent interviews with the elderly. The old man said that when he was young, he was busy making money, so he had very little discipline over his children. He thought that just giving them some money would be enough, and he never cared about what the children were thinking. When the children were a little older, he got to know some people in society. Since then, my temper has become irritable and irritable, and I like to use hands and feet from time to time, but it is a bit difficult to control it at that time. The \”Three Character Classic\” once mentioned the words \”It is the father\’s fault if he fails to educate.\” When we condemn this bastard son who now has no filial piety, we should not only think about ourselves. 100% of the people in our group are already parents. The oldest children have just entered junior high school. Most of them are in kindergarten and elementary school. At this time, we all pay much attention to our children and the focus of our attention. where to put? Everyone said it in an uproar. They didn\’t know if they didn\’t say it, but they were shocked when they said it. Everyone cares about their children, but the focus of their care is a bit off. On the premise of eating well and drinking well, most of my friends focus on how to cultivate children\’s talents and develop their intelligence, but there is basically no concern about how to cultivate children\’s moral education of filial piety and love. If you don’t even have a conscious awareness of paying attention in the early stages, how can you expect your children to have a filial piety from an early age? This seems to explain one of the reasons why there are so many gnawing old people now. Fortunately, it\’s not too late to find out now, so you should teach your children this lesson quickly, and don\’t let yourself destroy your children\’s filial piety. But how can I make up for this lesson to achieve better results? Some methods are summarized below, and you can combine them with your actual situation! First, cultivate children’s sense of filial piety. Children don’t understand what filial piety is. As an adult, you can explain it to your children. Don’t teach boring theories. Even if you explain boring theories with great effort, your children will not appreciate it because they are not interested in boring theories at all. The best way is to use a story that your child likes. Bedtime stories are a good choice. Second, set an example for your children. Adults lead by example, which has more practical educational significance than empty words. Parents can let their children feel a good atmosphere of filial piety, respect for the elderly, and love for the elderly. There is no need to say too much about teaching by words and deeds. Third, don’t be too hasty in your filial piety when raising your children. The cultivation of filial piety and moral education should also be carried out in conjunction with the different stages of children\’s physical development, just like intellectual development. At the stage when children are learning to take care of themselves, let them learn to respect and be courteous to their elders; when they are fully capable of taking care of themselves, while respecting and being courteous to their elders, they begin to help their parents do what they can, experience their parents\’ hard work, and understand their parents\’ difficulties. There is an ancient poem that says: \”Sneak into the night with the wind, moistening things silently.\” The education of filial piety is just like the meaning in the ancient poem. Its appearance and expression are not vigorous, but subtle. As long as you pay more attention, the seeds of filial piety will surely It will take root in the children\’s hearts. As you grow older, you will definitely taste the sweetness brought by your children\’s filial piety!