Who says matter is conserved? My baby can grow up even if he doesn’t eat all day long.

Many people envy me because my two children have good appetites and I don’t have to worry about their meals. Especially my sister, who looks like a standard foodie. Judging from the way she gnaws bones, I guess she can directly make money by doing live broadcasts. In fact, all this is an illusion. It’s great to be able to eat like this twice a week. In most cases, they only eat lightly and rarely eat well: among three meals a day, one meal If I can eat seriously, I will be very satisfied; if I can eat seriously for two meals, it will be like great luck; if I can eat three meals seriously, maybe the world will be peaceful… Anyway, this is what I remember This kind of thing has never happened before. One of the three meals must be soy sauce. According to my standard, \”eating seriously\” doesn\’t mean eating until you lick the bowl and no juice is left. It means that the rice in the bowl is obviously reduced, even if you eat it seriously. In most cases, their meal is just a symbolic ceremony. First, they have to grab a seat next to their mother for a long time. Finally, they sit down, pick up a spoon, and before they even take a bite, they start complaining that today\’s meal is not delicious. I had no choice but to suppress the roar in my heart of \”If you like to eat, eat or not, get out!\”, I forced out a \”good mother\’s smile\” and patiently advised: \”Try it! It\’s delicious! Don\’t you like eggs the most?/Rourou It\’s fragrant/the carrots are a little sweet when you chew them~~~\” When they couldn\’t stand my flattering tone, they would act as if they were giving me a favor, reluctantly taking small bites with suspicious faces, as if they were afraid of chewing too much. Suffer. The scene in my fantasy is that after they taste the food, their eyes suddenly light up, they cheer \”it\’s so delicious\”, and they bury their faces in the bowl and eat hard. This kind of situation… is not impossible, but the probability of it happening is about the same as winning the lottery. More than 99% of the cases are: after they taste it, they immediately show an expression of \”I knew it tasted bad\” to prove how wise and great their previous foresight was. My brother was a bit better. Because he was a bit germaphobe, he could barely swallow the mouthful even though he didn\’t think it tasted good. My sister, Xiao Gongju, was more willful. When she found that she didn\’t like it, she actually spit out the chewed food back into the bowl for me. It was a success. Ruin the appetite of everyone here! After confirming that today\’s meal is \”not delicious\”, they will start poking at the rice with a spoon while laughing and joking, saying a hundred words without taking a bite. After I remind them to \”eat quickly\” for more than the eighth time , they would cry sadly, stuff a few mouthfuls of food into their mouths, and then ask me as if they were checking, \”Mom, I\’m full, can I go?\” This meal has been dealt with. I never force them to eat, not because I am Buddha-minded, but because I know that the result will be my brother screaming and my sister vomiting food. Neither of my two ancestors is easy to mess with. I might as well stay and be a mother. The last bit of dignity… You might think it must be Chengzi\’s poor cooking skills that makes the kids dislike her so much. That is really an injustice to me. Whether they eat well or not has nothing to do with what I cook! Even if grandma (a professional pastry chef) with excellent cooking skills comes to cook, she will still be obeyed by the baby. CanMaybe I love eating dumplings, but today I may suddenly feel annoyed just looking at them, and declare that they are not delicious before I even bite into the fillings. It’s also possible that I suddenly got into the stir-fried vegetables that I didn’t like before, and I might eat a whole plate of them today. Of course, the probability of this happening is really low, and it might happen once in a month or two… It\’s more likely that they keep saying they want to eat something, and go to great lengths to make it for them, but only take two bites and then stop. Over the years, I have seen through it all that cooking skills, color, fragrance, nutrition, etc. are all just a cloud in front of young masters and ladies. Whether they eat or not depends entirely on their mood. When you are in a good mood, you can even enjoy boiling broccoli or eating raw carrots. When I\’m feeling unhappy, I won\’t even touch fried chicken, French fries, or even chocolate, let alone serious meals. But only God knows when I am in the mood to eat. Over the years, I have not found any particularly certain rules. Their appetite may be at the quantum level, an elusive cloud of probability, in a superposition state of existence and destruction for a long time… This leads to the death of countless brain cells when I decide what to cook every day: Research on Personality It\’s a new dish. It\’s very risky. It took so much effort to make it. If it\’s not popular, I may not be able to control the ancient power in my body. Whether I eat or not is another matter. It\’s really harmful to the chaos on the dinner table. I am the face of a parenting celebrity. Let’s make a repertoire that is sure they like to eat. The risk is even greater. All such programs are treasures that have stood the test of time. Resources are limited and must be used sparingly. Once the frequency is not controlled and the young master and lady get tired of eating, then If you won’t touch it in a few months, then it’s really like stealing the chicken but losing the rice. In the future, there will be one less trump card… How about making a challenge that they may not like to eat? Although there is a probability of more than 80% that they will be rejected, there is still a slight possibility. Their appetite and mood are very beautiful. If they eat some unexpectedly, they will make money. The greater the risk, the greater the opportunity. Do you want to gamble? Where\’s one? I often struggle like this while holding the refrigerator door open in a daze. I don’t know how much more electricity is burned and how much earth resources are wasted… What a sin! In fact, when it comes to eating, I have already become a very Buddhist mother. If I don’t want to eat, I won’t eat. I will clench my teeth and close my eyes as if I don’t see anything. Skipping this meal will act like I am losing weight. I\’m just very curious, what is the structure of my baby\’s body? Why doesn\’t he eat very much all day long, but he still has the energy to jump up and down, can still poop so much, and still grows up very healthy? Last month, my two children took turns getting sick. They didn\’t eat well for more than a month, and their height and weight actually increased. This is unscientific and inconsistent with the law of conservation of matter! ? Makes me wonder if they have a small perpetual motion machine inside their bodies! Maybe, maybe I was wrong. Maybe children don’t need to “eat seriously” every meal and they can thrive! I heard that humans in ancient times did not have the conditions to eat three meals a day, but only one meal a day. They were hungry throughout the day looking for food. If they were lucky enough to find something to eat, they could have a big meal before going to bed at night. If I\’m hungry, I\’ll have to wait until tomorrow night to eat., it’s normal to have one meal every other day. The reason why modern people eat three meals a day is purely the result of desire and habit. In fact, it does not mean that the body really needs that much. Thinking about it from this perspective, the kid\’s eating strategy, which is based on his whim, is actually a true reflection of the true needs of the human body. It may cause parents anxiety, but there is nothing bad about it. Children, aren’t they all grown up? Of course, as parents, we always want our children to eat better, more varied and rich foods. If we don’t want to gain weight, it is always beneficial to grow taller. So how can we get them to eat more? The following methods are not guaranteed to work, but they can increase the probability that children will have appetite: 1. The things that need to be grabbed are the most delicious. When the time comes to test your acting skills, you must be devoted and sincere. Compete with your baby for food. If your baby doesn\’t bother to compete with you… believe me, it won\’t work if you use other methods. 2. The more children eating, the better. Sometimes, appetite can be a problem. If you watch others eat, you will look out of place if you don’t eat. 3. Going to a restaurant to eat may be much better than eating at home. You can explore a few restaurants that your kids like to eat and are relatively clean and healthy. My two kids like to eat Japanese food and hot pot. 4. Exercise is king. If you go out and climb the slide two hundred times, how can you not be hungry? Even if you are not hungry today, you will be hungry tomorrow or at some point the day after tomorrow. The key point is not to eat cookies or drink sweet drinks when you are hungry. Your child\’s hard-won appetite will be taken up by these non-nutritious things. . 5. To brainwash the baby, today my mother made the carrots that the little rabbit loves the most/the leeks that the lamb loves the most/the bones that the puppy loves to chew/the bracken that the dinosaurs love to eat the most… 6. Fight between meals Snacks, pay attention to nutritious and healthy snacks. For details, see here \”Children should eat snacks, but it depends on how to eat them.\” 7. Do not eat snacks with high oil and sugar before meals: Guoguo once was cooking when I At that time, she was complaining that she was starving. I got excited and gave her 5 pieces of potato chips, but then there was nothing more. I just stopped eating… 8. Provide your baby with a variety of food as much as possible, even if you know he doesn’t like it. We often look familiar, but we don’t necessarily eat it when we are happy or curious. We always have dreams, just in case they come true. 9. The atmosphere when eating should be harmonious. Only when the child is happy can he eat more. No one can eat even if he is full of anger. There is no way out if he is forced to eat or chased after eating. 10. You can skip meals, but you must have table manners. Let your child know that he must sit down before eating. He cannot watch TV or computer while eating. Only then can he have the opportunity to taste the taste of food and enjoy the fun of eating itself. Okay, that’s all. I hope every little rice bastard can be healthy and strong.