Why do primary education now basically rely on parents?

Because he is your child! Because he is your child! Because he is your child! Let me say the important thing three times. Children’s education does not depend on parents, but does it depend on schools or teachers? The teacher just shows you the door, but you still have to rely on your parents to practice! Why do you say that? There are two reasons: First, homework is too little. Written homework is not allowed in the first and second grades now. Some teachers in the upper grades will get complaints from some weird parents and students if they assign more homework. Therefore, homework is always too little. In the time spent at school alone, children\’s learning speed cannot keep up with the speed of forgetting. If you want your children to learn well and thoroughly, they mainly rely on their parents to help them, preview before class, review after class, and then do some appropriate questions to check for gaps. Second, there are generally about 40 students in a class with less time. One teacher teaches 40 students, which is like cooking a big pot of rice. It can only ensure that it is cooked well. If you want it to be delicious, delicious, and delicious, then parents can only open a small stove by themselves, because Teachers can only follow the requirements of the syllabus and combine it with the understanding ability of the whole class. If it is too difficult, many students will not understand. At the same time, because there are many students, it is impossible for the teacher to pay attention to each student\’s mastery level. Even if the teacher only spends 1 minute on one student, it will take 40 minutes for 40 children, and one class will be over. Teachers are careless or don\’t pay attention to their children. The main reason is that teachers\’ energy is limited. In addition to attending classes, they also have various problems to deal with and assess, etc. If as a parent, you can\’t even teach your own child well, let alone expect a teacher to teach 40 children. What to do? I have two children. Dabao is now in junior high school and Xiaobao is in elementary school. They have gone through many detours and stepped on many pitfalls. Now I will share my experience with everyone, hoping to help you avoid lightning. 1. About mathematics Mathematics is the basis for learning science well, and Chinese is the basis for learning liberal arts well. It is a kind of meta-knowledge. Only when you learn it well can you learn other subjects well. My Dabao\’s math scores are like the K-line chart of stocks, which can make people mad from time to time. The main reason is that the foundation is not solid. If you meet a teacher you like, your grades will be good, but if you meet a teacher you don\’t like, your grades will be hard to describe. Therefore, after Erbao entered primary school, I paid special attention to cultivating the child\’s number sense and grasping basic knowledge. There was no way, as the top student focused on thinking, we Pu\’er could only lay a solid foundation first, improve the calculation ability, and then go on to A brief introduction to Olympiad thinking. How to develop number sense? Two decks of cards, you can get it for 6 yuan! Go to the supermarket and buy two decks of playing cards. As long as the numbers are 1 to 10, we can use them to do addition and subtraction for children every day, make up ten numbers, add, subtract, and multiply, 24 points, etc. Do the simple ones first, and then according to the The difficulty gradually increases according to the child\’s ability. Children\’s nature is to like playing games. When you turn learning into a game and let the child gain a sense of value and accomplishment, he will fall in love with learning. Second, regarding Chinese, in addition to paying close attention to basic words, children must be allowed to read and recite aloud. Many children are simply unwilling to read and reluctant to read aloud. Even they themselves cannot hear the buzzing sound. If you have more time on weekends, read more. On weekdays if you have less time, read some Tang poetry and Song poetry when you get home from school or before going to bed.As the ancient Chinese saying goes, a little makes a lot, and sand makes a tower. Today, a friend sent me a private message and asked, how do I teach my children to memorize \”The Analects of Confucius\”? How can I memorize such a long and boring thing? It\’s actually very simple! Break down the big goal into simple and feasible small goals. There are 20 chapters in \”The Analects\” in total. Memorizing one chapter at a time is definitely difficult, and there is not so much time to memorize it. What should I do? We divided the entire \”Analects of Confucius\” into 354 paragraphs, and memorized one paragraph every day. It could be about 100 words more or dozens of words less. It could be completed in one year. Is it difficult? It’s not difficult at all, the key is persistence! Endorsement should be done as early as possible, while the children are young and obedient. Memorize more now and it will be easier in the future. More importantly, the more you memorize, the better your memory will be, and the easier it will be to learn other subjects. 3. About English English is the simplest of all subjects, it is just a language. The easiest way to learn a language is to acquire it. Acquisition means listening and reading more when you are a child, and reading and writing more when you grow up. It is very economical for my children to learn English and they have never signed up for classes. When Dabao was little, I would watch or listen to cartoons such as \”Peppa Pig\”, paired with the Oxford Tree and Climbing English series. When Dabao was a little older, I would I started memorizing the \”New Concept\” series and memorized 5 words every day. My current English scores have always been among the top three in the class. In fact, you don’t need to study a lot of materials. Learning one or two sets thoroughly is enough to cope with the exam. Now, I have reproduced this method on Xiaobao. I don’t even need to buy a book. It is mainly economical and affordable. It is not enough to have love in family education. It also requires wisdom. Just throwing money at it will not work. You also need to be willing to spend time and energy to accompany your child and grow with him.