Why doesn\’t your child love you? I regret only seeing it now

There are some things in life that you don’t have to care about, but there are some things that you can’t care about, and that is your child’s love for you. He Yifang, now the vice-principal of Beijing International Art School, told her story. When her son was a child, He Yifang worked in the trade union of Beijing No. 2 Woolen Mill and often had to work overtime at night. In order to fulfill her responsibilities as a wife and mother, the first thing she did after get off work was put on an apron and go to the kitchen to cook. One day, my 6-year-old son ran back from kindergarten, sweating profusely: \”Mom, come and see!\” the son shouted excitedly. \”What are you looking at?\” The mother walked out with a smile, and saw her son\’s two little hands holding it together and opening it carefully. \”This is the money that \’Lao Bazi\’ (the nickname of a boy in kindergarten) gave me! His grandma gave it to him!\” The son said in surprise, and the mother leaned over to take a closer look. What her son was holding were some irregular ones. Small piece of metal. \”This is for a ring! Mom, why don\’t you wear a ring too? You don\’t know how to dress yourself up.\” The child\’s words made the mother stunned. She looked at the \”silver\” and then at the child, her eyes were hot. , she carefully took the \”silver\” and kept it carefully. He Yifang said emotionally, \”Although I didn\’t get this ring, my son\’s love has always warmed me.\” Ren Lirong, a university lecturer, also talked about her accident. \”When my son was young, I took him to live at my grandma\’s house. I usually didn\’t give him pocket money because my family was not well off. One day, I took my son back to my grandma\’s house and intentionally gave him a few cents to buy some food. Unexpectedly, he bought me a ring without buying anything himself. \”Mom. I bought you a gift, look, a ring! \”My son looked proud. I became angry when I saw it, pointed at my son and scolded: \”You! It\’s embarrassing for me to buy such a fake ring, how beautiful it is! \”The son was stunned. He lowered his head, held the ring tightly in his hand, and said nothing. I just thought at the time, I asked you to buy your own food, why did you buy such a fake ring? I only felt sorry for the few cents, but I didn\’t expect that it would hurt the child\’s heart. When I thought about it later, I felt so sorry for my son’s feelings! \”Since then, I have paid special attention to protecting my children\’s love.\” Li Rong continued: “When I was in elementary school, my son had good explosive power and performed very well in the high jump. Once, I took him on the shuttle bus home. On the way, my son mysteriously told me: ‘Mom, I won first place in the high jump, and there’s a prize too! Look -\’ He turned around and flipped through his schoolbag, \’Yo! How not? ’ The son was anxious and looked left and right but couldn’t find it. \”\’Don\’t worry, mom will look for it with you!\” ’ I helped my son search for a long time, but still couldn’t find it. I calmly said to my son: \’Son, you won first place today. Report the good news to mom. Mom is happy and contented. It doesn\’t matter whether there is a prize or not! ’ My son became happy, and I experienced the joy of sharing success with my son. From now on, I will care about every bit of love my son gives me. When my son went to middle school, he used his 80 yuan pocket money to buy me a beautiful hairpin, which I have used for several years. I know this is my son\’s love, and I care about it. \”A small ring may not be valuable, but it is a child\’s love after all! This love is young, if you care about it, it will grow; if you ignore it, it will wither;You hit it and it dies. If you want to have a child who loves you, you must care about it, care for it, and nurture it carefully. Children\’s love is often reflected in the subtleties. It may not be as realistic as a 100-point score or a trophy, but it is a monument on the road to life and the most substantial reward for parents after their hard work. However, it is a pity that some parents only know how to dedicate love to their children and turn a blind eye to the love their children give themselves. They care more about their children\’s scores and rankings. After the meal, my mother was washing dishes in the kitchen, and the child stuck his head in: \”Mom, I\’ll wash it!\” \”Go, go, go to school. You want to be a chef in the future, but you have no future!\” In the evening, the father watched TV, and the son came from the house He came out, brewed a cup of tea and brought it to him, \”Dad, drink tea! The new tea just delivered by the third aunt, it smells great!\” \”Who wants you to pour tea, I can\’t pour it myself? I knew you were sitting in the room I can\’t help but borrow tea and go out to watch TV. It\’s really a weasel\’s bad intention to pay New Year\’s greetings to a chicken!\” The son was so aggrieved that he went back to the house to do his homework in frustration. He was no longer in the mood to pour tea for his father. It is said that children nowadays are indifferent, but have you ever given them a chance to love you? Parents who are eager for quick success often inadvertently indifference their children\’s love. The inner world of some children changes from love to hate, from desolation to desert, but their parents have no idea that they have anesthetized themselves with the bitter wine they carefully prepared. Love is a big bag, what goes in is satisfaction and what comes out is sense of accomplishment and happiness. If you blindly show love to your children, the children will not find it sweet, and they will not know how to cherish it. Once parents learn to accept their children\’s love, the value of their children will be reflected, and they will be extremely happy! Accept your child’s love! Because it is more blessed to give than to receive!