Why is Lin Yilian’s daughter not half as good as Dou Jingtong? More than childhood, more than tutoring, more than parental relationship

Lin Yilian\’s \”Singer\” started singing her ex-husband\’s song \”Don\’t Care Who I Am\”, telling the woman\’s thoughts and making the audience cry. The queen\’s return has attracted many topics. Many people compare her with another queen, Faye Wong, in terms of singing and marriage… Of course, their daughters have not escaped everyone\’s comparisons. This article takes a closer look at childhood, What kind of life will the differences in tutors, parents and friend circles bring to children? Lin Yilian\’s daughter Li Xi\’er (right) was born in 1999, two years younger than the well-known Dou Jingtong. Their parents are both powerful idols; they have lived in the spotlight since childhood; they both experienced their parents\’ divorce when they were young; both of them have half Blood sisters; both went to study in the United States and had seemingly rebellious adolescence experiences. Dou Jingtong made his debut in the music world and received a lot of praise. Her straightforward personality was completely inherited from her parents. She was upright, polite, and well-educated… These were all labels given to her by everyone. She seemed to be a spring of fresh water in everyone\’s eyes. Faye Wong\’s 2016 Shanghai concert was met with criticism, but her daughter Dou Jingtong\’s appearance on stage was described as the only highlight. Dou Jingtong became the \”eldest sister\” and Faye Wong became the \”third sister\”. They are both naughty and loving as mother and daughter. Li Xi\’er, Lin Yilian\’s daughter, in the eyes of the Hong Kong media, seems to be a wild horse running wild, forming gangs in junior high school, boycotting classmates, and running rampant on campus. Lin Yilian hurriedly sent her daughter to the United States to stay away from reporters. Since then, there has not been much news about Xi\’er. It is said that Xi\’er, who is studying in the United States, also intends to study music. It is unknown what she will do on the road of music. Judging from the photos released on her Facebook, her rebellious character is still vaguely . What caused such a big contrast between them? In addition to individual differences, the following four points play a key role. Childhood Dou Jingtong\’s childhood was taken care of by her aunt Dou Ying, but Faye Wong did not neglect her daughter because of work and love life. Regardless of the period, Faye Wong often took her daughter with her when traveling and working, giving her endless love. There were many heartwarming moments of mother and daughter together. There are very few photos of Li Xi\’s childhood with her mother. Part of the reason is that Lin Yilian lived a reclusive life when her daughter was young and took great pains to protect her children. However, after her divorce in 2004, Lin Yilian came back to work hard to make money. Due to lack of resources, Xi\’er could only be cared for by Filipino maids around the clock. Tutor Dou Jingtong has a very humble personality. Photos of her working in a coffee shop have gone viral in the circle of friends. Like a regular work-study student, she rides a bicycle to deliver food and bends down to order food for customers. Everyone praises her for her good service attitude and excellent tutoring. Faye Wong\’s education for her daughter can be smelled from her songs. In 1997, Faye Wong sang \”Your Happiness Is My Happiness\” for her daughter. You are happy, so I am happy. Dou Jingtong dropped out of school to make her debut, and Faye Wong fully supported it. In \”Child\”, Faye Wong sings \”You can\’t be bad, you don\’t have to be bad.\” Tongtong gets tattoos, smokes, and drinks, but the mother doesn\’t care. Faye Wong herself said: \”Every willful and ignorant mother can always give birth to a docile and sensible daughter.\” That daughter, Faye Wong called her \”eldest sister\”, and in her heart, she believed that the sensible Dou Jingtong would neverWill learn to be bad. Li Xier was accused of slapping her classmates in the street when she was in elementary school. In middle school, she got even more serious. She got violent with her classmates and even lingered on the court. She received two major demerits and was almost expelled from the school. The reason why Li Xier became like this is probably because her parents divorced and their respective lives were different. Busy with work and having no time to take care of her daughter, Li Xier could only spend most of her time with her Filipino maid. Over time, she developed a pampered and overbearing character. Li Zongsheng particularly dotes on his youngest daughter Li Xi\’er. Her half-sisters Li Chun\’er and Li An\’er both blame their father for being partial. Relationship with Parents The relationship between Dou Jingtong and her mother is self-evident. Although she has not lived with her father Dou Weiyi since she was very young, her relationship with Dou Wei is very harmonious and close. For example, when his father\’s \”subway photos\” were exposed and he was described as down-and-out and slovenly, Dou Jingtong silently rode the subway with her mother and supported Dou Wei. Li Xier was very estranged from her mother during adolescence. Her mother reserved a seat for her at her concert, but she did not show up. Instead, she asked the driver to take her to swim and eat with her boyfriend. Li Xier, who had a boyfriend since she was very young, strongly opposed the relationship between her mother and her father after their divorce, and the relationship between mother and daughter deteriorated. If it weren\’t for her mother\’s current man, Gong Shuoliang, who acted as a bridge and proactively suggested that Li Xi\’er go to New York to study and teach her how to play drums and guitar, the relationship between mother and daughter might not have been able to ease. Life Circle Dou Jingtong has participated in the school choir since she was a child and showed her musical talent. Her social networking sites were once full of love for music. Music has allowed Dou Jingtong to make many like-minded friends. Dou Jingtong is a sister slave, protecting his sister Li Yan, whom he has lived with since childhood. She also has a very good relationship with her half-sister Dou Jiayuan. Dou Jiayuan\’s \”scarf\” is full of photos of her having sex with her sister. Logically speaking, Faye Wong and Dou Wei\’s divorce was due to Gao Yuan\’s intervention, but for the sake of their children, the three of them have always been very affectionate. Harmony, turning hatred into concern. Li Xier has been playful since she was a child, and often posts photos of her playing on social networks (second from right is Li Xier). Li Zongsheng encouraged his daughter to \”fall in love with the person she likes\” and even made a shocking statement: \”If you want to elope, go ahead! As a father, you can only love her!\” With his father\’s pardon, Li Xi\’er was revealed to have had boyfriends since she was 13 years old. , from ABC to Thai, the relationship with the opposite sex has never been broken. Personality ≠ Rebellion The two have similar experiences, but completely different personalities. Dou Jingtong has personality but is not rebellious; Li Xier is rebellious and creates troubles, often cheating on her parents. Faye Wong respects every member of the family. Dou Jingtong grew up in such an environment and knows how to respect each other. But Li Xier was different. She lacked adequate care from her parents in her childhood. She longed for attention and recognition, but did not get it. It can be seen that families can be wealthy and children can be smart, but a poor family environment and a laissez-faire family will lead to major life problems for teenagers, and they will experience different lives. Reading their stories serves as a warning for our lives and how we can raise children wisely. This is the purpose of this article.