With a dad like this at home, it’s hard for a child to become a talented person!

I remember watching \”Where Are We Going, Dad\” for the first time? Ding Dong\’s mother thought of her own father. She thought of being afraid of going downstairs and being carried down the stairs by her father when she was a child, because the little toys her father bought for her could keep her excited for a long time. My father doesn\’t make much money, is not well educated, and can\’t tell me a lot of truths, but in my eyes he is a good father. There is no specific boundary between \”good\” and \”bad\”, but if the following standards are not met, then the good dad will have a question mark! Does your child have a father like this? Indicator 1: Able to respect children. A father who respects his children is more likely to have a heart-to-heart relationship with his children. Respect children, including respecting children\’s choices, language, behavior, personality, etc., be able to see the children\’s shining points, and do not blindly impose responsibilities and criticize children. When children decide their own preferences, a father who respects his children will listen to his children\’s opinions and give his own opinions and insights to guide his children\’s growth. Indicator 2: Love Mom In a family, the relationship between husband and wife should come before the relationship between parents and children. Whether that person in your family is a good father also depends on whether he treats you well. Will he share the chores? Can you understand your wife\’s hard work? Are you good to your father-in-law and mother-in-law? Can you take care of people? Can I protect you from wind and rain? Do you know how to respect you? Romantic, handsome, and rich are not important. What is important is that he treats you well. Such a man must be a good father. Indicator 3: Don’t set a bad example in front of your children. It’s normal for dads to smoke and drink, but a good dad will never smoke or drink in front of his children. Alcohol can easily lead to violence, and you will definitely not be a good father. Smoking is harmful to health. Smoking in front of children and second-hand smoke will harm their health. Another example is gambling and fighting. These behaviors should never be allowed in front of children. In addition, a good father will not play with his mobile phone in front of his children. A person who values ​​his mobile phone and computer more than his children is not a good father. Indicator 4: Keep your promise to your children and keep your promise. The image of a father is extremely noble in the hearts of children. If he agrees to go out and play with his children, he must do it no matter how busy or tired he is. Otherwise, the children will be disappointed and feel a sense of loss. The good image of the father will be compromised. If you can\’t keep your promise, it\’s better for dads to keep silent and not make promises. Indicator 5: Spending 15 minutes with your children every day is the longest confession of love. Many fathers are unable to accompany their children because of their busy work schedules, which leads to them becoming increasingly estranged. In fact, it doesn’t take too long every day. As long as you have more than ten minutes for your children to cultivate parent-child relationships, your children will be very happy. See if the one in your family has done it? Indicator 6: Like sports. Generally, fathers who like sports are generally healthier, have a higher quality of life, and have an optimistic and open-minded personality. Such a father can convey full of positive energy to his children. In his spare time, he takes his children out for runs and games to strengthen the parent-child relationship and exercise. This is how a good father comes to be! How many of these standards for a good father do fathers meet? Being a good father is very simple, just put your family first. In fact, being a good father is very simple, just put your family first. Watch \”Dad\”\”Back\”, Dingdang\’s mother particularly disliked a father like Wang Zhonglei. As a man, he was successful; but as a father, he was undoubtedly a failure. How many times has his son been left alone in a hotel to go about his own business? How sad must his son be! Many people would rightly say that a man’s first priority is his career. If I don’t work hard outside to make money, how can I ensure that my children and wife have enough food and clothing? There are sacrifices and gains, this is normal. Dad who said this, it’s time to reflect on yourself. Where do you put your family? Celebrity fathers such as Lin Zhiying, Huang Lei, and Xia Keli are busier than ordinary fathers, but it can be seen from their interactions with their children that they are good fathers and their children also like them very much. Why can they take care of their career and family, but you can\’t? Family relationships can experience many crises over time. Conflicts between husband and wife, conflicts between parents and children are inevitable. But a good father who puts family first will constantly adjust these contradictions, so that the family will become more and more happy and happy. Many fathers have this experience: when their children were young, they had no time to spend with them; as their children grew older, they found that they were becoming more and more distant, had no common topics, and the children did not stick to their father. At this time, my father began to feel lost and regretful, but it was too late. Because every time you work overtime, you use time that should be spent playing with your children. Spend more time for your family. Cook with your wife, take the children out to take out the garbage, and bring a copy of something interesting you see on the way home for your wife and children… One day, you will find that such a simple life turns out to be It can be so sweet. Text｜Dingdang Mama