Wu Zun and his daughter eat steamed buns. This is the best tutor.

Watching the variety show \”Where Are We Going, Dad\”, I was not only fans of Wu Zun\’s good looks, but also impressed by the way he educates his children. Most of the programs of \”Where Are We Going, Dad\” are recorded in the countryside, and the environment and food are relatively simple. During the recording of a program, the breakfast given by the program crew was steamed buns and eggs. For the children of the Wu family, who live in Brunei and come from a very wealthy family, steamed buns are simply unpalatable. Therefore, the son took a bite first, and when he found that it was not delicious, he handed it to his father Wu Zun directly. Wu Zun took the steamed bun and continued eating. The son stared blankly at his father eating. The daughter asked her father with a puzzled face next to her: Do you like it? Why do you eat everything? While eating steamed buns, Wu Zun said to his children: Many people want to eat a lot, but there is nothing to eat. You can’t waste it. Some people only eat white porridge, no eggs, nothing, so you have to be good, you know? At that time, what Wu Zun said may not be understandable to the children who live a privileged life, but Wu Zun taught by words and deeds. As a result, the two children ate the steamed buns seriously. Although they were not delicacies, they tasted extremely sweet. Wu Zun uses his words and deeds to educate his children, so that the children not only see their father talking, but also doing it. Teaching by words and deeds is easier for children to accept. Parents use their words and deeds to establish a good image and are the best tutors for their children. And such tutoring requires parents to have good words and deeds. Parents\’ character, style, thoughts, and even emotions have a profound impact on their children all the time. A foreign educator said that children\’s words and deeds are like a mirror, reflecting the spirit of the family and parents. Therefore, if you want your children to be well, you must first set an example. Parents\’ daily words and deeds have the strongest persuasive power in cultivating children\’s personality. The best tutoring is to teach by words and deeds, that is to say, the words and deeds of parents determine the words and deeds of their children. If parents fail to cultivate good words and deeds themselves, how can they set an example for their children? A friend of mine drives a taxi. Every day because of traffic jams, overtaking, etc., he is always in a bad mood and does not know how to control it. He always talks dirty words. At first, he didn\’t pay much attention to his words and actions. Until one day, he sent his five-year-old son to kindergarten. As soon as I parked my car, I was rear-ended by a car from behind. Although the car and people were fine, his son\’s words almost caused him to crash the car. The son said clearly and crisply, Damn, he was rear-ended. What a damn unlucky thing. The friend finally realized that he was not paying attention and kept swearing, and as a result, he was unknowingly ruining his son. Moreover, my son became more and more like me, his temper became very irritable, and he would fall to the ground and roll around if he was not satisfied at all. After that, he tried hard to restrain himself. Occasionally when he encountered traffic jams, he would tell stories to his son to pass the time. He stopped swearing, his personality became gentle, and he was patient with his son. Parents\’ words and deeds influence children\’s cognition. Once, a reader left a message in the background. He said that it took him three years to get rid of the habit of taking advantage. His parents ran a small business, and because they didn\’t earn much, they were always short of money. Because it was not very valuable and customers were too lazy to make noise, my parents were always proud of it. He is influenced by what he sees and hears and thinks that this is a good thing. He is happy that he will not suffer any loss if he exceeds the size limit.You have to do what your parents say and do. After entering the workplace, although he was highly educated and professionally qualified, his development was not good because he had to carefully weigh everything and calculate the pros and cons, and as a result, he missed many opportunities. As children grow up, they will subtly imitate roles, and the initial objects of imitation are their parents. If the parents\’ words and deeds are good, then the children will not be bad; if the parents\’ words and deeds are bad, then the children will be misled. Occasionally I browse the news and am struck by a set of pictures. A netizen was waiting for the subway when he saw a family of four, the parents leading the baby, and an old man who might be the grandmother or grandma, waiting for the subway together. The baby asked his father, what are the footprints under his feet used for? Dad said it was used to queue up to get into the subway. The baby may not understand what queuing means, so the parents patiently explain to the baby how to line up and abide by ethics to enter the subway. Finally, in order to express the meaning of queuing more vividly, the parents and the old man lined up neatly, and the baby I also stood in front of my father seriously, and the family of four waited in line for the subway in a warm manner. That netizen said, \”I really think it\’s great to educate children in this way, and it looks warm.\” The best tutor is to teach by words and deeds. And when I looked at the picture, I was really warmed up. Well-educated parents teach their children through words and deeds. Living in such an environment makes children feel so happy. And not long ago, there was another picture that left me speechless. In a playground somewhere, two boys were fighting for a toy. One mother helped the child grab it, and the other mother was very angry. As a result, the two mothers started fighting over a disagreement. There were two children nearby, one was so frightened that he cried, and the other was completely petrified. Two mothers were performing a martial arts scene, and the father of one of their children suddenly rushed out to join the battlefield. Originally it was just a matter of children grabbing toys, but it turned into a big scuffle between the two parents. The two children watched the whole thing. The most ironic thing is that when they went to the police station for mediation, the parents of both parties were still arguing with each other, while the two children forgot about the previous dispute and squatted in the corner of the police station to play. The French writer Rousseau said that we should try our best to educate children with actions, and only use words to teach when teaching by example cannot. Some parents fail to take action, let alone teach through words. For well-educated parents, it is a blessing for their children to be able to teach them through words and deeds. For uneducated parents, the so-called teaching by words and deeds will harm their children. Teaching by words and deeds is the best education method in the world. So, how do parents teach well by precept and example? First of all, as parents, we must improve our own quality. Wu Chun has a good reputation in the entertainment industry. He is handsome and effortless, and has a happy marriage and a harmonious family. The parents who line up at the subway station to set an example for their children are caring, patient and of high quality. In the incident of snatching toys at the playground, the quality of the parents was extremely poor and they did not set a good example for their children. Secondly, parents should be consistent in their words and deeds. Just like the friend who drives a taxi, the child\’s heart is pure and flawless, and any words and deeds of the parents affect the child\’s cognition. Therefore, one must always be alert. Finally, parents’ behavior and habits are also very important for educating their children. Habits include living and dealing with othersWait, good behavior can give children good growth direction. The most direct way of education in the world is words and teaching, and the most effective educational behavior is teaching by example. Only when parents do well themselves can they teach their children better through words and deeds.