You want to jump off the building if you don\’t agree with each other, why do you give everything but raise your child to be a white-eyed wolf?

Some time ago, an uncomfortable thing happened in Jingdezhen, Jiangxi. A 10-year-old girl, because of a conflict with her sister, lay down alone outside the balcony railing, intending to commit suicide by jumping off the building. His mother, on the other hand, knelt in the house and begged her daughter over and over again: Mom will change. Mom has changed a lot. One day, something good will come. Don’t I pamper you? I said, whatever my sister has, you also have. The mother who was kneeling on the ground begging for mercy had humility written all over her back. One netizen\’s comment impressed me deeply: A child who is only 10 years old already knows how to threaten his mother with his life and ask his mother to kneel down for him. With such an education, what will it look like when he grows up? When she was a child, her mother didn\’t agree with her child to eat a lollipop, so she rolled around and made a fuss. Finally, she gave her the candy because of her troubles. When she grew up, her mother couldn\’t meet her child\’s needs, so she threatened her life, but her mother refused. He could only kneel down to pray for her safety. As everyone knows, your indulgence and doting when you were a child turned out to be a heartless \”white-eyed wolf\”! Sacrificing everything to give to children is the most terrible gift parents can give to their children. Education expert Makarenko once said: Giving everything to children, sacrificing everything, even sacrificing one\’s own happiness, is the most terrible gift parents can give to children. I deeply agree. In May last year, I saw a piece of news: a 10-year-old boy used his father’s funeral expenses of RMB 50,000 to reward the anchor. Confusion in the world. It turns out that in the eyes of this 10-year-old boy, the anchor is more important than his biological father. The news also said that the boy\’s mother suffered from rectal cancer. This 50,000 yuan is not only dad’s funeral expenses, but also mom’s life-saving money! It is said that children of poor people become rich early, but this 10-year-old boy has no idea of ​​the hardships of his family, let alone the value of his parents. He only has eyes for the anchor who brings him low-level happiness. Children who have been pampered by their parents since they were young have no idea of ​​the hardships of their parents, let alone what it means to be grateful. Ungrateful children hurt their parents the most. This mother\’s heart was completely broken by her 10-year-old child. On the contrary, it is the 19-year-old boy who took the college entrance examination-Li Xiaomai. Li Xiaomai\’s family has poor financial conditions. His father goes out to work, his mother takes care of his sick grandfather, and he has two younger sisters at home who are studying. In order to no longer burden his family, on the third day after the college entrance examination, he went to work as a waiter in a hotel to earn tuition. Every day, his WeChat steps are more than 20,000, and he earns a total of 7,800 yuan from part-time work. He earned all his tuition fees through his own efforts. They are also children in their 10s, and their families are in difficult economic conditions. Some children can stand up to share their parents\’ worries, while others are worried about their father\’s \”funeral expenses.\” Writer Zhang Jiawei once said this in an answer on Zhihu: Your parents raised you up, and you never got sick or had any genetic diseases. They didn’t throw you out of Joy City, and they didn’t die of suffocation or heat in the car; sacrifice. The quality of my life satisfies you, and I don’t have any problems left behind to hinder you. It’s really beautiful enough and worthy of gratitude. Yes, they have spent most of their lives raising you, educating you, and doing their best to create the best quality of life for you. This is really worthy of your gratitude to them..