Your child looks so uneducated, so ugly

The child looks uneducated. What kind of experience is it to encounter a \”naughty child\”? Most of the answers are \”unspeakable\”, which cannot be described in one or two sentences. Not long ago, I attended a classmate’s wedding. Chen Cheng and I were classmates in middle school and very good friends, but we rarely interacted with her friends. On the day of the wedding, I, who had not seen anyone I knew, was placed at a table with her friends. At first, the atmosphere was awkward because they were not familiar with each other. A little boy next to him moved the table and chairs from time to time, playing with the dishes and chopsticks. At first he thought, well, if there are children, the topic will be indispensable. Unexpectedly, the child\’s real outburst occurred after the meal. I saw him climbing on the table, spinning the table like a flywheel. When he saw something delicious, he would hold it down and stuff it into his mouth. After stuffing it, he would start spinning again. We were so fascinated by it that we had no chance. Stretch out your chopsticks. Just like that, the child was performing his stunts next to me, and the mother, who was having a conversation just now, ignored him and just kept asking him to eat slowly. When he was full, he jumped off the seat. We thought to ourselves that we could finally eat in peace. Unexpectedly, the child started running wildly all over the place, crumpling paper balls from time to time, and throwing them into the dishes. On the table, in other people\’s bowls… everyone just smiled, because they couldn\’t get angry with strangers\’ children. A friend said: \”Our children are similar to him, but not so naughty.\” The meaning of this sentence is obviously to imply that the mother of the child is in charge of the child, but the mother said: \”The child is different from the child, it will be better if he is older\”… Well-educated children are more worthy of appreciation. I once met a child , as warm as a spring breeze. At that time, our company had just moved into the downstairs of his house. One day at noon, he knocked on the door of our company. I opened the door while I was on duty. The little boy politely called aunt, and then said: \”Mom asked me to ask uncle and aunt, what time do you work? I have to practice piano and take exams during the summer vacation, but I can\’t disturb your work, so I want to ask. !\” The little boy looked like he was seven or eight years old, and he was polite and polite. We immediately liked him and happily told him that he only needed to play the piano after work at six o\’clock. From then on, I could hear his beautiful music every time after get off work. The little boy was really punctual. But not long after, we didn\’t hear the little boy playing the piano for a long time. Everyone was puzzled, as if something was missing in life. Finally, one day after get off work, I met the little boy in the elevator. We all asked in unison, why don’t you practice piano? \”Oh, uncles and aunts, the grandpa next door to me is sick and has just returned home from surgery. Mom said that grandpa doesn\’t sleep well, so he just squints for a while at five or six o\’clock in the afternoon. I can\’t disturb grandpa. So I go to the piano room to practice every day. .\” The little boy answered seriously. He raised the music score in his hand and smiled happily. No one said anything else, but they all thought silently in their hearts: What a well-educated child! Sometimes the real education is hidden in the little details. A small inadvertent action of a child reflects the cultivation of his parents. The education of children and the cultivation of parents. Many people do not think that uneducated children are related to their own education methods., they will only think that the child is still young and it will be fine when he is older. This is the legendary \”Bear Parent\”. There is a piece of news that everyone must have seen. It tells about an old lady taking her grandson for a walk outside a shopping mall. Because the child was naughty, a luxury car was damaged. The owner got out of the car and argued that the child\’s father was carrying millions in cash. Just buy the luxury car and smash it on the spot. Before leaving, he said, \”My son is much more expensive than your car.\” When they first saw the news, people felt that this was a rich man who was arrogant. In fact, this is far from being arrogant. It is clearly stupid and has the temperament of an uncultured nouveau riche. Children are arrogant, domineering, willful and ignorant, often because they have uneducated elders who think that money can ignore everything, children can be infinitely forgiven, and nothing is more important than children. Did this happen just because the child was ignorant? When he picked up the key and scratched the luxury car, someone should have told him that this is someone else\’s property and should not be touched; when he disrupted everyone\’s meal at the dinner table and ran around the adults, someone should have stopped her. , don’t cause trouble in public places and be careful about bumping into others. It is said that it is the child\’s temporary negligence, but it actually reflects the parents\’ lack of upbringing. A child is like a piece of snow-white paper, accepting the renderings of the world. The parents closest to him are the first touch of color on this white paper. Every word and deed of a child reveals the upbringing presented by the parents. The words and deeds of the child are like a mirror that reflects the appearance of your soul. Before education, brew yourself: you run a red light and cross the road but you want your children to obey traffic rules; you litter everywhere but you want your children to respect public environmental sanitation; you often swear and make rude remarks but you want your children to be polite people; education comes from good things Good door style requires long-term edification. Tutoring, as the name suggests, involves the words and deeds of parents and elders, as well as the subtle influence in the family and environment. For example, not talking when eating or sleeping, not talking when eating, not talking loudly, and not playing loud music. These are generally habits that are easier to develop in a family environment. True education is like one tree shaking another tree, one cloud pushing another cloud, one soul awakening another soul. It is a silent process of moisturizing things. Those in front only need to set a good example, and those who follow will follow suit. If you also want to raise well-educated children, then please remember one thing: first turn your own character into wine and merge it into the spring of life of your child, so that the fragrance can linger throughout the child\’s future years.