Your child shouldn’t be your favorite! So what is your favorite?

First of all, Doudehui, you ask a question: Parents, which one do you think is more important, the relationship between husband and wife or the relationship between parents and children? Who do you love most: your husband, wife or children? Do you think the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is more important or the relationship between husband and wife? If you figure this issue out, you won\’t get into big trouble or be troubled in your family relationships. In Chinese family relationships, children are the most important. All family members revolve around children, and children are the core of the family. Chinese families love and spoil their children so much that they give everything they have to their children. Even if you don’t have it yourself, you always want to provide your children with the best things in the world. When the child was young, he sheltered him from wind and rain, arranged everything, and protected him under his wings. When their children grow up or even start a family, Chinese parents still take care of their children inside and out. They seem to live for their children all their lives. Many parents don\’t want their children to suffer a little bit. I am used to being frugal and spending money on my children. There used to be a saying: A poor family will give birth to a noble son. This is not the case now, it is a prodigal born from a poor family. There are too many similar news on the Internet, which makes people feel chilled. Many family conflicts revolve around children. Nowadays, fewer and fewer parents are willing to let their children endure hardship. However, if you save your child from hardship, you will return it to him when he grows up and enters the society. Today Doudehui wants to implant a thought into all parents: children should not be your favorites! Your favorite should be your significant other, your wife, or your husband. Parents should keep the above paragraph in mind!!! I read a joke on the Internet a few years ago. Today, Doudehui will retell it to you. This joke is of great value: A university in the United States, when class was about to end, The professor said to the students: \”I will play a game with everyone. Who is willing to cooperate with me?\” A girl came up to the stage and the professor said: \”Please write on the blackboard the names of twenty people you can\’t let go of.\” The girl did as he was told. . There are her neighbors, friends, relatives, etc. The professor said: \”Please cross out the person you think is the least important here.\” The girl crossed out the name of one of her neighbors. The professor said again: \”Please cross out another one.\” The girl crossed out another colleague of hers. The professor said again: \”Please cross out another one.\” The girl crossed out another one. …In the end, there were only three people left on the blackboard, her parents, husband and children. The classroom was very quiet. The students looked at the professor quietly, feeling that this was no longer a game. The professor said calmly: \”Please cross out one more name.\” The girl hesitated and made a difficult choice… She raised the chalk and crossed out her parents\’ names. \”Please cross out another one.\” The professor\’s voice came from beside him again. She was stunned. She raised the chalk tremblingly and slowly but firmly crossed out her son\’s name. Then, she cried loudly, looking very painful. The professor waited for her to calm down and asked: \”The people closest to you should be your parents and your children, because your parents are the ones who raised you, the children are your biological children, and you can find a husband again. Why is your husband the most difficult person to let go of?\” The students looked at her quietly, waiting.her answer. The girl said calmly and slowly: \”As time goes by, my parents will leave me first, and the children will definitely leave me when they grow up. The only person who truly accompanies me throughout my life is my husband.\” Dear parents , after reading the above paragraph, don’t just regard it as a story or a joke. The profound truth contained here is a thought and a motivation that I want to implant in all parents today: children should not be your favorite! Your favorite should be your significant other, your wife, or your husband.